“Break-up” does not always mean broken souls. In every relationship, people came across good and bad and learn lessons by ending up things drastically. In this article, we will talk about the considered worst phase of a relationship that is “ BREAKUP “.
Always remember the first rule of life that is Stop playing Blame games. If you think he/she broke your heart that does not always mean his fault only. Well, some people give us memories, happiness while others taught us life lessons. Its good to learn those life lessons which our school teacher or parents are not going to give. Thanks to these people and try to forget the past.
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Here are a few things that need to be done by you in order to get rid of bad thoughts and bad vibes. A few are listed below.
Some relations end on that verge where relation ends excluding feelings, emotions, and self-confidence. Well, it is easy to say move on. But in actuality, it is hard to have control over emotions and feelings. Pretending to be strong actually makes you feel badly broken from inside. In this case, we strongly suggest you see life as lessons.
Life is full of adventures, ups-downs, sadness, good things, and many more things. You are given this beautiful life in order to live, feel, and make it memorable as if time never comes back.
Until and unless you are broken from inside you will not gonna experience life lessons. Heartbreak actually heals you up in a very positive way.
Accept the reality that he/she is no longer with you. The truth is that you both are no longer sharing any bond. Doing this will make you realize the fact of truth and makes you feel patient and less anxious towards him.
After accepting the bitter reality of your broken relationship you need to just simply block you Ex from your WhatsApp, FaceBook, Instagram, and more importantly from your calls. This will make you realize each time to cut off proper contact with them.
It is good to transform yourself completely from a negative soul into a positive soul. Boost your confidence, stay with friends for loner time, go out with family, start focusing on your career, start writing things in a diary, start making your future goals. Realizing the opportunity, yes breakup is also an opportunity for those who actually want to do something big in their lives. Start working on your self guys.
Increase your visibility
Meet new people, greet them with fresh faces of yours. Build your social media presence strong. Be bold to face challenges.
Disconnect future hopes related to Ex
If you had a fresh break up then you need to work on this point. Disconnecting all future hopes like “what if”, “why this”, “will be back”. You need to erase all thoughts like this. These thoughts won’t allow acceptance and happiness to come your way.
Stop making yourself busy make yourself goal focusing
Making a busy schedule will make you busy at work till it lasts and again it will remind you of those bad thoughts. On other hand, focusing on your goals will replace that bad thought permanently and makes you focused.
At last, we will end up by saying the fact that everything takes time, and time is the universal healer. Give time to yourself. Stay strong as nothing can break yourself until you allow them. Do not depend on others for your life. Do not find things for happiness instead find happiness in small things. Family is and will be your real friends for life share your worries with them.